"Does this dress make my butt look big?"
It began as one of those "deer-caught-in-the-headlights" moments...I know you can relate.
It was date night and my wife and I were getting ready for a well-earned night on the town. My wife was looking beautiful as usual and on the way to looking so good we might not make it out the door.
And, in what seemed to be in ultra-slow motion, she turned and did it...
She asked that question every man dreads...(it was NOT by the way, the question in the headline above...my wife has a wonderfully exquisite butt.)
Now, I may not that great with the words and such, but then it hit me like a bolt of lightening!
The Answer to the question every man dreads!
Delivered upon me like a gift from the universe...
The Best Compliment Ever!
As I spoke the words, my wife's face flushed, she wiggled a little bit...and we never left the house the night!
That's right! Never get caught like a deer in headlights ever again!
You're person of taste and discerning character...your arrival here is no accident.
The trail that lead you here is traveled by an elite few that know how to recognize the finest things life has to offer you and your loved ones.
The people in your life deserve the best.
Imagine being able to bestow the verbal gift of recognizing the best aspects of the ones you love.What a wonderful gift to gift. Simple, easy, and free.
They will be unable to not want to give back to you.
Compliments trigger one of the most powerful and irresistible forces in nature.
Keep reading and I'll prove it to you.
Compliments aren't just word candy!
- Compliments have always been used to gain advantage
- Compliments are like vebal gold in all scenarios
- Compliments can be used to influence situations
- Compliments can reduce fear - no more deer-in-the-headlights feeling
- Compliments trigger the Law of Reciprocity
So what's this "Law of Reciprocity" you're talking about anyway?
The Best Compliment Ever works because of the Law of Reciprocity is one of the most powerful of all human desires.
The principle of reciprocity states that when a person provides us with something, we attempt to repay him or her in kind. Reciprocation produces a sense of obligation, which can be a powerful tool in persuasion. The reciprocity rule is effective because it can be overpowering and instill in us a sense of obligation. - -- from wikipedia
When applied with love and compassion this law of human nature can be a powerful tool for good.
First thing to consider when using an energy this powerful is the Golden Rule. Don't "play" someone into doing something. Use compliments and kind words to create win-win scenarios.
Second, the law of reciprocity is like a bank account for karma. Remember that these can be used for good and bad...they can also also be use to your benefit or detriment.
It really is that powerful.
Those you want to influence will be helpless to resist your desires. When you access the Law of Reciprocation it will set off a wave of giving rolling onto your shores.
"Compliments are your ticket to ride and I've got the best one ever!"